How long have you been doing what you do and how did you get to be a Results Life Coach?
To answer this question, it’s probably best that I share with you a defining moment and resulting ‘compelling story’ that brought met to where I’m today, coaching people like you to open their heart, discover their true identity + potential, build a strong self-confidence, take their place and find their drive to play a bigger game, without any hesitation.
I was always interested in what makes people really successful and truly happy. For a long time in my early life I thought that this is a good education, a good job, a good salary and high status. Since I’m educated in a culture (in North Macedonia, a little country in South of Europe) where the social control is very high and the belonging to the family and the group is very important, as well as the success symbols from outside, I became very good at fulfilling people’s expectations and achieving those symbols (good education, good salary, high status, respected job…) in order to feel worthy of Love.
After finishing my university degree (economy) I started working for a huge international bank which just started its operations in Macedonia from scratch. I worked 24/7 and was fully devoted to my job, which brought me management functions. Then I thought I was happy and successful, since I got a lot of acknowledgement and admiration. From outside. But, as I grew further in the hierarchy of the bank, I’ve noticed that the management ruled top down, based on fear, pressure, humiliation and threatening. Then I felt deeply that these are not my values. This is not my way. There has to be something more in life.
Fortunately, I’ve found the strength, the confidence and the courage in myself to transform this fear and pressure from above into love, true understanding and warm support towards my employees. Because I believe in love, respect, justice, true service and in the good in people. As my team felt supported and encouraged, we became very successful, achieving consequently the business plans with more than 100 %. Then I became aware that I wanted to contribute to a greater purpose in my life and make a higher impact in the world. But I didn’t know how yet.
My answer came through the love of my life. After years without a relationship, I longed for a man who has a big heart for people and has the qualities in him that suit my character.
In 2007 I met my Dutch husband Ton Creemers. A brilliant man with a unique psychological knowledge. He was already an experienced Senior Coach and Business Advisor who guided people and organizations in all aspects of human development. With speed and quality I’ve never seen before. Ton was able to put into words what I already automatically did in my way of guiding my people in my work. Our frequencies matched immediately. And we fell in love.
it took me 2 years to gather the courage to make the decision to give up the life I’ve built up, to choose for the love I felt for Ton and to start completely from scratch together with him in The Netherlands.
During this time I’ve discovered the power of coaching. I had an epiphany. By witnessing the transformations of our clients and the strength and the possibilities which were released as a result, I knew: coaching is my thing. This is my mission!
Since then I made commitment to immerse myself in absolutely everything that had to do with cleaning up the obstacles which are hindering the personal growth and helping people to fully take their place and spread their wings wide open.
I worked with Ton shoulder to shoulder for 7 years. During this time I’ve learned the psychological background of peoples’ characters , behaviours, ways of communication as well as which patterns hinder our human development, how to let go of the things which don’t serve us and how to learn new behaviours and implement structures that promote true happiness, progress and joy in life. Ton helped me also to understand the spiritual laws of life (to which I unconsciously tried to live by), how these work and how to implement them on a much deeper level in my life.
In 2014 I started for myself. Since then I made a commitment to dedicate the rest of my professional life to helping people who unconsciously keep themselves small to close their energy leaks, overcome inner conflicts, discover their true identity and embrace their greatness, so that they can win at their life and bring out the best of their potential, relationships and work.
Because no one has to hold back! You have talents and qualities within you that you need to develop and put them in service to others and to the world. Then you serve yourself, your family and your environment at your best. If you fail to find your sphere of usefulness, that will lead to having frustrations and ailments, as well as to failure to succeed in other aspects of life. At least, not to the fullest of what you are capable to accomplish.
But if you embrace your talents with all your heart, then you’ll become unstoppable! If you dare to open up and truly connect to your heart, then you will really rise to the top! And all your relationships will flourish.
I promise you this!
Who are your clients exactly?
My clients are very intelligent high achievers, spiritual people who want to make an impact, individuals and sometimes couples, honest, hardworking, sensitive people with big pure hearts who are searching beyond the surface as they want to understand life and themselves deeper. They are eager to learn, want to take personal responsibility for their successes and have a true desire to contribute to a higher purpose. They have a profession, a calling or a mission and feel that they have so much to give to others, only they don’t know yet how to do this the right way.
Namely they haven’t discovered yet the human knowledge and how the spiritual laws of life work and therefore they lose energy in extra hard working, pleasing, giving themselves for 300 %, taking too many responsibilities, and they end up feeling guilty, overwhelmed, living in a hurry, feeling not enough or not loved and often not well understood and acknowledged by their surroundings.
They don’t know yet that there is nothing wrong with them. But that there is something that gets on the way.
What happens if you haven’t yet worked with people in my field?
I’ve worked with different variety of people: from teachers, educators and yoga docents to business owners and project managers, from business consultants and coaches to sales and financial people, health practitioners, virtual assistants, IT people and graphic designers. They are all very good at their profession. What they all need to discover is the human knowledge (the psychological, emotional and the communicational patterns as well as their personal leadership and relationship skills) in order to be able to use this to their advantage.
If I haven’t worked with someone in your profession, that can be your advantage. Because human knowledge is universal and we people have the same human needs in the essence.
What my current and former clients have found exceedingly helpful is that I bring an extremely fresh perspective to their life situation and help them find resources they’d never thought they could use.
How are you different from other “life coaches?”
What sets me apart from other life coaches is my rich business background in combination with my deep knowledge of the human nature and my unique ability to see, understand and encourage you in your unique situation and your personal strengths and longings. With my help you will lovingly close your energy leaks and embrace your true identity with confidence and joy. And can integrate all the parts of yourself you didn’t know you have yet. Because when these are reclaimed, your entire Life integrates. From inside out! As a result, you develop Self-Confidence, Positive Will and Strong Self-Esteem to create your life on your terms, with laser focus and without any hesitation!
What type of personality do you work best with and what is expected of me?
My workshops, products and programs are created for people who are absolutely excited and deadly serious about getting the best out of their life, relationships and work and ending what I call the cycle of “waiting, holding in and playing small in their life”.
They are created for you to recognize, accept and close your energy leaks step by step, learn effective communication skills and set clear borders, which will protect you and help you to show up in a bigger way in your life and take a decisive action towards your goals and dreams.
Being a high achieving go-getter myself, I’m known to work best with other high achieving go-getters, who don’t settle for anything less than what they can possibly create, experience and be(come) and who are super-ready to get going and just want to know exactly what steps to take to move forward.
Consider what you’ll do with me to be an action learning course. In little steps and in Joy. You will be expected to take serious and consistent action. And I’ll be there to support you every step of the way.
For what type of person is this program (coaching) NOT going to work?
Please know I’m very selective in who I work with and I cherry-pick my clients, choosing to (gently) turn away people who aren’t suited for my programs and won’t get the results for which they would have signed up for (It wouldn’t be fair to them).
My coaching doesn’t work for people who are not coachable. Some people are not searching for improvement, they are satisfied with life as it comes and goes and they are not receivable for new insights and ideas. And there are also people who expect that the coach will do their work for them as they don’t take personal responsibility. This is not realistic. As a coach I can give you knowledge and advises, but you need to have the will to implement them. Otherwise the coaching will NOT work.
“Working together means working together on the basis of the free will and equality, in the understanding of the mutual dependency.” -Abbas Effendi
Coaching won’t work also for people who see coaching as a cost and not as investment in themselves. If a coaching effort, time or fee is considered a cost, the coachee will avoid it, delay it or reduce the effort and the time allotted to it. And there will be no results. However, if it is considered an investment, the coachee will be careful in how the effort, time or fee is utilized. There is an expectation of returns, the actual returns are compared with the planned returns and appropriate steps are taken to maximize returns.
Another type of person I won’t work with (without exception) is the whiner or the chronic sceptic, as well as individuals who consistently make excuses for not getting their assignments done or challenging every aspect of the program. If you are one of these people, I gently and respectfully ask that you not call and I hope you understand why. We’ll probably just not work well together and I wouldn’t want you to waste your time or money. Is that fair?
What exactly is The Embrace Your Heart™ program and what does it include?
Embrace your heart™ program is fully focused on closing your energy leaks and becoming free from the systems and structures imposed by your culture or upbringing, so that you can identify your true identity, set clear borders, build strong self-esteem, and focus on creating your life on your terms.
It is an interactive online year program which endures 12 months. Every month you get an separate module which includes 1, 2 or 3 lessons and worksheets which build naturally on each other, so that you can easily and joyfully move forward.
Here are the modules:
- Basic Conditions for spiritual development
- Upbringing, emotions and qualities/traits
- Strengthen your positive will and get certainty
- Overcome Pleasing and searching for acknowledgment outside yourself
- Face your fears and step outside your comfort zone
- Find your rhythm and stop living in a hurry
- Discover how to handle guilt, perfectionism and smothering
- Understand your human needs and overcome limiting beliefs
- Dealing with Conflict and Crisis
- Learn to choose your moods
- Discover your life values and how to communicate effectively
- Reach your dreams with concrete steps
- Discover the Spiritual laws of the Universe
- Build and maintain a strong physical health
Does this really work?
YES, it does, it’s transformational and life changing! (See Client’s Testimonials )
What results can I expect?
- YOU’LL GET BIGGER THAN YOUR CHALLENGES
Life will always continue to challenge you because life never stands still and wants you to develop and become more powerful. Only you will know how to manage your life challenges for the benefit of your well-being and the well-being of your loved ones.
- By increasing your self-esteem you develop more soul mass. You become More… When you become more, you can have, dissolve, give, and be MORE!
- You save: time, energy, regret and a lot of struggling. You enrich your life with more: love, joy, compassion, peace and space, conscious choices based on knowledge, certainty, freedom, productivity, playfulness, aliveness.
- You get better life-work balance, increased confidence and removed challenges and blockages to success!
- You’ll know how to set healthy borders and protect your well-being and your psychological and physical health.
- You develop clarity and vision about what’s really important to you in your life and set strong standards to achieve this.
- As you get to understand and know yourself better, you’ll see and understand others better. As a result, you world view will increase.
- You make a positive impact: as you lead by example in your own life, you’ll have a positive influence on the life of your loved ones and the lives of the other people around you.
- As a result, your relationships will transform and improve. You’ll start attracting the real people who belong to you and the ones who really care about you will you see you and appreciate you more. You need first to see yourself, in order that others will see YOU. Then people are attracted to the real YOU and not to someone pretending to be YOU.
When you give yourself the permission to live your best life, you unconsciously pass that on to the people around you. Then you become an example and lead by deeds. Then you are like a magnet for others who only want to be around you.
- THEN the magic begins! This is where a lot of energy becomes free. And the real joy happens! You’ll experience life as a challenge, being unshakable while riding on the waves of live and enjoying the dance with the unknown which comes your way.
Can I contact some of your former clients to see what it’s like to work with you?
Yes, I encourage you to! Please go to the Client Testimonials page and read all of them. See which ones you feel drawn to, either because the person has gotten the results you want to get too, or perhaps because that person is in a similar profession. Then feel free to email or call them and ask what they got from working with me and my programs.
How quickly can I expect results?
Obviously, this depends on where you are at now and how much you put into the assignments that we give you. That said, virtually all clients see results within the first couple of months in the form of more energy, more aliveness, more creativity, more joy and strong willingness to move forward.
How can I guarantee myself that I will get the results, in record time?
Understand that it’s not a “quick fix,” it’s not magic and it takes up to a year for you to plant all the seeds and for those seeds to grow into the fruit that you can enjoy.
Will I recover the investment I put into this coaching program?
Yes, a resounding Yes! Many clients are excited to report that they were able to cover their investment many times. Because in life you attract what you are. And if you want more, you need to become more.
What you’re regularly getting with this program (and my coaching) is what I call a series of PINGs or AHAs! These will move you faster forward than you would on your own. Expect to get a lot of these as well as the resources you’ve been looking for and haven’t found until now.
How long is the program?
The program has 12 modules. You can do these in your own tempo. It takes up to 12 months to really integrate the new insights in your system, so that you can act automatically.
OK, I know what I want. How do we get started?
Great! Did you know that one of the most prominent characteristics of successful people is that they take action? They take educated risks, are decisive, take action, and they move forward towards success faster as a direct result of this. It’s a well-known fact these people make decisions based on their gut instinct. So, that being said, since this feels right for you, then go for it.
Here’s what you do: call me at 0031 6 473 20 593 or email me at firstname.lastname@example.org and we’ll be happy to answer any questions you have. I can’t wait to meet you in person or online to get you started on your path to a greater personal and professional success and more time off and energy to enjoy it all!
If I’m not sure I’m ready to get started, how can I sample your work at low cost to see if it’s the right solution for me?
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I have a family and a busy life. Although I want то achieve my results badly, I don’t have much time to spare. How much time do I need?
You’ll need about 1 hour per week.
OK, I’m ready to do this for myself, but I have a couple of additional questions. Can I call you?
Good, sounds like you’re ready to be pulled into your future! Yes, if you have a couple of questions, just email me at email@example.com or call me directly at 0031 6 473 20 593. I’ll be happy to walk you through the different options to see which one will be the very best for you.
I can’t wait to see you succeed and am honoured to be the one to help you. Let’s get going!