Our beliefs influence the way we perceive the world and create our reality.
We create our beliefs very subconsciously in our childhood based on how we’ve experienced the world as a little child. As we mature we take our beliefs in our adulthood. And then these beliefs influence the way we perceive the world and how we create our life.
The way we’ve experienced the world as little children is the way how we behave now in the present as adults.
This happens very unconsciously. So, we adults are also, as it were, children in an increasingly aging skin.
I’ll share with you some examples from my own experience about how our beliefs create our lives.
When I was 18 I wanted to make the choice to study economics in the capital of Macedonia (my native counry), which is 3 hours away by car from my hometown. At that time my father advised me to stay at home and study there, but the only option to study in my hometown was tourism and hospitality.
My father told me that world is full of wolves. This was his belief. He wanted to keep all his children at home, close to him. Fortunately I could find the courage to convince him that, although we had very limited resources at home, I can go to the capital, live very modest and complete my university. And I did it successfully. Meanwhile my father supported me very well, he trusted me and I am very grateful to him.
When I finished my studies I went to search for work again in the capital, I wanted to stay there at all costs. At that time in Macedonia it was very difficult to find a job, because the unemployment was huge.
People had to have really big connections to get a job somewhere and pay a lot of money for that. And you had to be a member of a political party. But, I was an idealist and I was convinced that I could find work on my own strength.
A friend of mine told me that this is not possible. Happily I stayed true to my heart. After one year of trying, I got a job in a large international bank that originally came from Germany, which was just starting to set up its operations in Macedonia. I have enjoyed working there for 7 years and have had a great career development.
My friend got a job with connections in a Macedonian bank. This is what she believed. And she stayed at the same job for 15 years.
Another example. I’ve always believed in love, I believed that I can find a man with a big heart in which I’ll feel at home. I didn’t have relationship for a long time, because worked very hard and I felt no attraction to the men I met at that time.
Then another friend told me that there are no such men as I want to have, they don’t exist. And that I have to experiment with relationships. She started experimenting and I stayed true to my heart. After 9 years I met my husband. And I am very happy with him. All the years of waiting were worth it. And my friend is still experimenting and she doesn’t have a steady relationship.
In my business every time I got stuck somewhere, it was always because of a mindset issue. I kept myself small for a long time. I was afraid whether I could speak the language well, whether I would be capable of taking care of my own existence. Each and every time, I had to grow within myself to solve the challenges and rise above myself.
Now I have a mentor in my business who shines the light on my path and helps me to move forward. And I am very grateful for that.
I could share countless examples with you about my own life, but then this video would get very long.
My message for you for today is “Be aware of your beliefs. Thy create your reality!”
Your life now is a summary and a expression of all the beliefs you have consciously or unconsciously and all the decisions you have made consciously or unconsciously.
Know as well that every time you get stuck at certain aspects in your life, the reasons is a lack of knowledge.
And all the problems you get are a call for you to grow into a higher level of consciousness.
If you can look at things that way, then you because aware that every time you get stuck, there is always a way forward. If you change your mindset, you can also change your life, and much more will become possible for you in every area: health, physical condition, relationships, work, business…Everything is fixable!
Know as well that you are never alone in your process. There are always people who have walked the path, from whose knowledge and experience you can learn, so that you can quickly move forward, without having to dwell for too long in trials and inconveniences that make your life difficult.
I advise you to get help, whenever you need it. Because it is almost impossible to do it on your own.
If you want to know more, I would love to help you to discover which beliefs that you’ve unconsciously created in your life, represent an obstacle at this stage of your further development towards more happiness, love, joy, fulfilment and wellbeing in your life.
In a free initial consultation you can discover whether we are a good match for each other and get all your questions answered.
Lots of love,