How do you keep yourself small | Natasha Martinoska | Resultaat Life Coach | Robbins-Madanes trained coach,

Many of us keep ourselves small without even being aware of that.

The ways you can keep yourself small very unconsciously can be various and numerous, because we people tend to search for safety.

Our brain is designed to keep us safe and in our comfort zone.

But the price we pay for being safe and comfortable can be huge.

I will share with you some examples of how we keep ourselves small.

How many times for example you had ideas that you refused as not being reasonable, possible or achievable?

How many times did you put down your own needs or longings because you felt not important enough?

How many times did you procrastinate on things you long for the most?

How many times did you put your needs in the last place because you wanted others to get their needs met?

How many times have you felt guilty because you could not make others happy or perhaps you made promises you didn’t achieve, even if you did these to yourself?

How many times have you stepped back and haven’t expressed your feelings because you didn’t feel safe enough to open your mouth and really share what you see, mean or feel?

How many times you gave up your wishes, your longings, and even your dreams because you bought the idea that these things are not possible for you?

How many times did you rely on others when you had to make important decisions about yourself, not listening to your inner voice and following what others thought was right for you?

How many times did you take responsibilities that were not yours because you wanted to help the ones you love the most?

How many times have you blocked your feelings, meanings, ideas, and insights because you were not trusting yourself enough and you lost momentum?

Dear friend, if you recognize yourself in the above examples, I get you. And I can tell you this can change. Things don’t have to be this way. You can change this by becoming aware of it and then making a different decision.

And this is a process that can be learned. I have witnessed many people who kept themselves small and who made the decision not to step back and bow to false authorities, systems and structures which are not promoting human well-being and health.

You see, every time you hold yourself in and block your self-expression, you lose precious energy. This is how you lose power and self-respect, you get more anxious, and confused and you lose the connection with yourself and what you have to do on this planet.

Nobody else can block you in your development, but yourself.

No actions or doings from others can stop you from manifesting your mission and the purpose that you have to fulfill here on Earth. You are the only one who has personal responsibility for your life. 

Perhaps is time for you to make a new start, a new beginning and make a different decision. A decision to create your life on a new level, a higher level of well-being, prosperity, love, health and happiness. I am here to help.

It’s my greatest joy to help people increase their quality of life, improve their well-being, enjoy happy relationships and achieve professional success.

Because life is created for happiness, for joy!

If you want to know more, let’s talk. I invite you to reach out for a free initial consultation through this link so that we can explore how we can work together!

Much love!

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