How to grow more LOVE? How to receive more Love? And how to LOVE more?
We all long for Love. It’s our basic human need to give and receive love.
But Love is a kind of “mothering quality”, which has many other qualities in it. And without these qualities, love can’t really flow. Some examples of these qualities are Freedom, Compassion and Forgiveness.
One of the most important qualities that Love needs is Freedom.
We people must feel free to give and receive love. That’s why things go so well at the beginning of any relationship when people fall in love with each other. They have no obligations together. They are totally FREE.
We can’t demand love. We can’t impose love. We can’t buy love. Love is not something you need to deserve.
I’ve noticed that many people have the idea that they need to buy love, very unconsciously. Or they think they have to earn love. And many are afraid of losing the love they already have.
How is that in your case? Do you feel that you are worthy of love? That love is FREELY available to you? Or do you think you have to fight for love, earn love or work hard to keep the love in your life?
What is your connection with Love? Or more precisely when do you feel worthy of receiving love?
Try to reflect on this. And try also to investigate if you can give love freely.
Because to love freely means being capable of loving unconditionally.
One example of unconditional love is the love that mothers have for their children. They love their children NO MATTER WHAT.
And we need more of this kind of love among adults too. That we can love each other no matter what.
Do you know what kind of power is this, when you can keep giving LOVE, no matter what?
This is healing love. And this Love can transform people.
Because adults usually know when they did something wrong. And when people meet space, love and true understanding in these moments, they will naturally apologize and correct their wrong behavior.
There is no need to punish each other again.
So, to love means to FORGIVE on time. And not to get stuck in the pain. To love also means to have COMPASSION for the shortcomings of others.
Because not everyone is as developed as you are, for example. We can try to see the shortcomings of others in our eyes as a love that hasn’t been yet developed. And we can also try to let those shortcomings by the other(s) and not to take them personally.
If you can do this, then you will really be FREE. And you will find PEACE in your heart.
Especially when you get triggered, try to ask yourself the question: “What can Love do now?” Then you’ll know immediately what you need to do.
In this way grows the Love in your heart. And you will grow as a person as well!
This is my message to you for the coming days, try to ask yourself in everything you do: “What would Love do now?”
If you can do this, WOW, then you’ll get aligned with the source of love within you, which always exists in you.
This is exactly what I do in my work as a coach with people: I help them to grow and increase the Love in them, so that they can manifest the life they truly love. And my program Embrace your heart focuses on clearing all the obstacles (which I call energy leaks) that block the love in their heart from flowing fully.
Would you like to know more? Then feel free to contact me. I would love to help you to make a wonderful start into the new year and reach your goals.
I wish you and all your beloved ones an amazing Christmas with lots of Light and Love in your hearts and a happy New Year.