Many people have the idea that there is no love for them.
Did you know that according to the statistics, more people have reported feeling disappointed on Valentine’s Day than on ANY other day or holiday of the year? More than birthdays, anniversaries or other holidays!
Maybe you have felt disappointed…like it wasn’t really what you wanted, imagined, or dreamed?
Or maybe you are the one who feels like you are being unfairly blamed for the FAILURE?
It’s very common to feel this way. MORE people experience this. So, know that you are not alone.
But it doesn’t have to be this way.
Few people are blessed to truly enjoy a happy relationship. The knowledge we need to learn how to be happy in a relationship is very new.
Our parents had little chance because psychology is only about 150 years old.
So, we need to have a lot of compassion, for our parents, all the people who are unhappy in their relationships, and also for ourselves…Because even when you are happy, you certainly make many mistakes and try to do your best, within your ability.
We were raised with this idea of romantic love, that we would meet the ideal partner who will make us whole and complete.
This idea no longer works. And this is what makes relationships go wrong. Because many of us unconsciously expect that the other person has to make us happy.
People who have this expectation adore and idealize their partner, and seek safety and protection from their partner…
Until one day they wake up and realize their partner can’t make their dreams true.
Mature people take responsibility for making themselves happy.
While many others blame their partners regularly for their disappointments.
My husband and I also went through this symbiotic phase as we pleased and adored each other. Happily, we went through it.
Now we know that I am responsible for my happiness and he is responsible for his happiness.
We can’t heal our partners. We must heal ourselves. We have to do the work. Only then we can connect out of love and wholeness. And not out of a need to take or get something.
And why wait to feel love until you have the perfect relationship? This love already lives in you!
The other person is just a trigger for you to activate this love. Because you are the one who feels this love.
That’s the reason I want to invite you to feel the love in you. Every day in your life. Regardless of whether you are in a relationship or not.
You can reach this love in you by feeling grateful for your life, for all that your life has given you, for all that you are, for all that you have, and for all the people who are in your life.
You can feel love for your partner, your children, or other people in your life… And you can also be in love with the sun, the water, the sea, the sky, the woods, the mountains…
You can find a place or create a place that makes you feel home, where you can flow in your self-expression and feel truly happy.
Life is too short to wait for the ideal, perfect love to come.
I invite you to enjoy yourself in your present. Now.
You were created out of love and for a purpose!
There was never anyone like you on this earth, there is no one like you now and there never will be anyone exactly as you are now.
Feel the love in you, try to identify with this love and you will notice that you will become a magnet for the people around you.
If you need help to grow more love in your heart and your life, so that you can shine from the inside out, I invite you to book a free initial consultation with me.
Love is healing. Love is for FREE. Love is GIVING. And Love finds WAYS… Always!