Many times, I get this question: “What is the fastest way to achieve personal growth?”

So, I will share my answer with you because this can help you to make huge steps forward in your own personal development. 

You see, majority of the people are focused on themselves and on what they don’t have or what’s not working well in their life.

But when we are too focused on ourselves and what we don’t have, this can be very discouraging. Because the things to which we put our focus on, will get magnified.

So, if you have this feeling that you miss something in your life, try to become very concrete.

Ask yourself the following two questions:

-what do I miss?

-what am I longing for?

And try to listen to your gut and trust your answers.

Do you miss more social contact? Or warmth? Or a hug? Or love? Or encouragement? Or compliments? Or someone who beliefs in you? Or someone who can listen to you?

Try to be very specific on what you miss. Make a list about this. And just let your hand write and try to come up with all the things that you miss.

And then, try to turn things around. Try to give to others what you miss in yourself!

If you miss warmth’s and feel cold inside, give warmth.

If you miss trust or people who believe in you, give trust and encourage others.

If you miss compliments, give compliments.

If you miss love, give love.

Many of the problems ehich people have come from being too focused on what’s not working well in their life. But this can ruin your moods, deplete your energy and make you feel depressed.

Especially if there is nothing to do about it on the short term.

But, you see, our live is not about us at all. Our life is about how much we’ve given to others, how much we’ve contributed, how many lives we’ve touched, how many lives we’ve improved.

Our life is not about taking from others. Our life is about giving. The human soul is a giver!

And when we can focus on giving, many of our problems will disappear. Because giving and contributing to others will make us feel joyful, happy and fulfilled.

And by giving to others what you miss, you give that indirectly also to yourself.

But if you give things with the intention to get something back, it will not work.

You really need to give unconditionally, without expecting anything in return.

The energy when you give is never lost. Life will reward you on many different ways. This is a spiritual law.

So , trust this!

Much love :)))))

PS. Would you like to know more? As a Results life coach I help people to clean up all the pychological obstacles which blok the light in their heart to fully shine, so that they can lovingly build a positive relationship with themselves and others, while creating the life they truly deserve.

You can use this link to get in touch with me.