Why coaching?
Why is coaching important and how can coaching help you to make huge steps in your personal development?
We people can’t objectively look at our own subjectivity.
We are always subjective to ourselves, because we can’t see ourselves from a distance. And we don’t know what we don’t know.
You see, the most important knowledge that we need to know about how to become happy in our life, how to achieve success, how to build up happy and fulfilling relationships, how to educate our children, what to eat to get all the ingredients that we need for our body and how to move to stay vital and healthy, is not really available to us through the regular schooling. We need to search by ourselves to find this out.
So, a coach is someone who experiences the situation from the outside, who has been in your shoes and walked the path already and can show you the exact steps, so that you can move forward towards what you like to achieve.
Many people have the idea that they have to be able to do the things alone and they don’t dare to ask for help.
In our culture and society many of us are educated in perfectionism. Therefore many people are convinced that they should be able to do everything by themselves.But this can take a very long time. Therefore many people live in the waiting room of life waiting for something, which will solve their problems. I’m not saying you can’t get ahead alone. That’s for sure. But very, very slowly.
For example, I know a man who has an inner conflict that is reflected in his relationship. This started in 2016. So far this hasn’t been resolved. He is still in pain. And he strongly believes that he should be able to do it by himself. He is a very proud man and he is paying the price for this.
I had also a strong belief that I should be able to do the things by myself. I can easily learn and I’m someone who regularly does self-reflection. Until I became very overwhelmd and I understood that I don’t know what I don’t know. Then I became aware that because of this stubborn attitude I’ve lost a lot of precious time. At that point I made the decision that I don’t want to waste time anymore.
Coaching is not only about the knowledge. Coaching is about the implementation.
You can find knowledge everywhere today, especially on internet. But the question is not: “Do you know it?” The question is: “Do you live it?”
You see, time is the most precious resource we have. Time never comes back. Time waits no one. And the time we get to spend in our lives is priceless.
A coach works as a catalyst in your life and can help you to save years of searching, years of investigation, pain, years of regret, sadness, hopelessness and many, many disappointments.
When faced with difficulties, we often tend to think that we are alone and that there is no one to help us. But the opposite is true.
For there is always someone who has already been to the same place where you are now and has learned the lessons that you now need to learn. This is how the Universe works.
Can you imagine, for example, what is the price of a life not lived fully from the heart? What is the price of the precious moments that you can create and can experience with the people you care about. What is the price of your health and vitality?
What is the price of all that you can give if you should feel fully FREE to be and realize your highest truest expression of who you are?
And what is the price if you wouldn’t do that and you let yourself be held back and let be guided by fears , insecurities, doubts or projections from the past?
This has no price for me.
For this difference is huge. It is like living in a darkness comparing to living in the light.
If a plant gets all the ingredients it needs to stay healthy and vital, it will grow into a beautiful tree.
But if the plant grows in the shadow or indoors, while it’s an outdoor plant, that plant will never develop its full strength. That plant will slowly but surely dry out.
The same happens with people as well!
We humans need the right environment to develop.
We need the right ingredients: love, understanding, encouragement, knowledge, the right diet, exercise, the right care, the right people around us who support us and who can give us a new perspective of what is possible for us.
So, we need the right input to be able to develop to the fullness of what we potentially have within us. You need to create this environment for yourself. And a good coach be a part of it.
I always choose the best coaches for me.
Because I’m worth it, I’m worth to get the best help. I deserve that.
Do you also consider yourself worthy of getting the best help, do you think you deserve it? Think about his.
Because this is a matter of self-worth.
Find the best coach for you! And I invite you to check if we are a good match :)!
I can help you to lovingly develop a strong self-esteem, so that you can build up a positive relationship with yourself and with the people you love. As a result you will flow in your own self-expression and feel free to develop and give through your talents and fully radiate the light from your heart.
I’ve developed a wonderful program for this purpose based on my 10 years of experience in which, together with my unque coaching style, I guide you to close your energy leaks, so that you can optimize your energy towards your goals. Because energy is everything!
Would you like to now more? Via the link below this you can book a free initial consultation directly in my agenda.
You will earn your investment 100 times again.
I promise you this!
Much love :)))))